Knowing exactly how you want your mentors to help you move forward can motivate you to find these mentors, as well as give you the fire you need to ask your potential mentors for help in a compelling way. Think about what you need, then dream and make a list.
Write and Approach Your “Dream List” of Mentors
There are mentors, then there are “dream list” mentors. Dream list mentors are the mentors you’d pick if you could choose any mentors on the planet. Landing these kinds of “dream list” mentors takes audacity and connections. But it’s certainly doable.
==> How Mark Zuckerberg Landed Bill Gates as His Mentor
When Facebook was still in its infancy with just a few million members, Mark Zuckerberg decided he wanted to make it a platform. He wanted developers to be able to build apps on the platform.
He asked one of his mentors if he could put him in touch with others who’ve developed platforms. His mentor said he might be able to put him in touch with some developers who’ve built a platform in the past.
Zuckerberg said: “I was thinking more along the lines of Bill Gates.”
His mentor laughed at him. Here he was, running a startup social network with far less traffic than MySpace and he wanted Bill Gates to teach him how to build a platform?
The next day, when his mentor walked in. Zuckerberg said “I talked to him.” “Who?” “Bill Gates.”
Zuckerberg just called him up and asked.
==> Be Realistic vs. Be Audacious
The most successful people in the world are much more accessible than you’d think. Successful people had mentors themselves and often want to give back.
You probably don’t want to approach these kinds of mentors until you’ve got some traction. You want your business to be running moderately successfully already. These mentors should help you get to the next level, not help you get your business off the ground.
==> Start with Your Top 10
Write a list of your top 10 dream mentors. These should be the mentors you’d pick if you could choose any mentors on the planet.
Once you’ve written these 10, write out who you know that might know them or know someone who knows them. Make sure to include investors, lawyers and current mentors.
Also write out a list of 10 people who are “close” to your current network that you might be able to reach out to. For example, perhaps the person who owns the building you work out of is a multi-millionaire and could teach you a lot. You might want to put him on your list.
==> Be Audacious in Making Contact
Be audacious in making contact with potential mentors. Successful people respect audacity. Don’t assume that just because they’re more successful they won’t give you the time of day. Remember: You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Actively seek out mentors who can help take you to the next level, even if they seem unattainable. If you reach out to 10 such mentors, there’s a very good chance you’ll land a couple.
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